Dona Nobis Pacem

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On Friday, my youngest son leaves for six weeks of basic training in the United States Navy, and the start of a six year enlistment. I have very mixed feelings as he starts this new chapter in his life. On the one hand, I am very proud that he is willing to take six years out of his life in service to his country. On the other hand, I am very concerned for his well being in light of the state of affairs around the world.

But the best thing I can do at this time is put my youngest son in God’s care and hope that the very fact that the United States has a strong military helps to maintain even the shaky level of peace we have today. I can also use my vote to put people in positions of leadership who value peace as much as I do. Arguably, the past eight years has seen decisions made which did anything but foster a lasting peace.

I am not in favor of ignoring direct attacks against this or any other country in the world when those attacks are unprovoked and against innocents. By the same token, I think it is wrong for countries to seek to impose their beliefs on other countries through threat, intimidation, or invasion. In that vein, I think it is time for the United States to re-examine our foreign policy where it relates to advancing our brand of democracy in countries that have not asked for our input. Yes, speak out for human rights, as every person should. But do not involve ourselves with forcing democracy on anyone.

I think it is also time for our country, which has so much, to begin looking at how we can help those in the world who lack even the basics. While we are turning corn into fuel for our automobiles, there are people starving to death in the world. While corporations are increasing their profits by moving work to places on the globe with the cheapest labor there are people trying to survive without adequate shelter. More an more, when one hears of the “Global Economy” what comes to mind is the fact that the wealthy are benefiting from the exploitation of those desperate to make a living and support themselves and their families.

If one looks at everything that is involved in the idea of “Peace,” it can be overwhelming. There are no black and white answers that will allow peace to be a reality. What is very clear is that the status quo is not an answer either. Somehow we have to address the issues which cause so much division in the world: Arab vs. Israeli; Pakistan vs. India; black vs. white; China vs. Tibet; and the list goes on and on. Beginning on a micro scale is a beginning. How I treat each person I come into contact with on a daily basis should be a reflection of my value of that other human being. Hopefully, that will result in a chance at dialogue and understanding. One relationship at a time, perhaps the world can be changed.

NOTE: Queen Mimi, at Mimi Writes, is the creator of the Blog Blast for Peace. She wrote this post that really puts into words what this movement is all about.

  • May your son stay safe and come home soon.

    "Words have power ... If you get the right ones, in the right order, you can nudge the world a little."

    Tom Stoppard

    May we all say together: PEACE

    Jamies last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • Lee
    Jamie: Thank you for visiting Tarheel Ramblings and for your kind good wishes for my son. Through efforts like Blog Blast for Peace, may be can give the world that little nudge it needs to have real peace.
  • I understand your concern about your son... we live in scary times.
    I think this says it all...
    "How I treat each person I come into contact with on a daily basis should be a reflection of my value of that other human being."
    Great post Lee ~peace~

    dawns last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • Lee
    Dawn: Thanks for your kind words, and you're right. We do live in scary times. Something has to change fundamentally or the planet is just going to self-destruct in all the hatred.

    Meleah: The truth is, I'm not sure that Aaron would be any safer sitting at home and working in the job he's had for the last 18 months. There are so many ways for bad things to happen these days that it is only by God's grace that any of us see tomorrow. My only hope for sanity is to place the care of all my children and grandchildren into God's hands.
  • Lee, I commend your reaction to this chapter in your sons life. I doubt I would be able to react in the same manner. I am impressed with your whole thought process.

    I think I would Flip Out, Fight Till The Death, Handcuff and SIT ON my child and never let him go.

    I know thats not very American of me to say Out Loud, and I know at some point I will have to let my child GO.

    But into the Navy? Army? Military?

    NOFA KING way.
  • Jaffer
    May God keep him safe where ever he is - Amen
  • Lee
    Jaffer: Thank you so much. As a parent, the best thing I can do at this point is place his care in God's hands...as hard as that is to do.

    Mimi: Thank you so much for this movement. And thank you for pointing me to Lori's post. We do have a lot in common

    Lori: Welcome to Tarheel Ramblings and thank you for your comment. My son is 20, and will be 21 in August. I still think he's too young for this, but it's right for him at this point in his life. All I can do is support him and pray that God protect him.

    RennyBA: Welcome, and thank you for your kind comments.

    Comedy Plus: Thank you for your good wishes.
  • Lee - Your post is wonderful. We are saying prayers for you and your son. I love the way this community comes together and lifts each other up. Go to Lori's site and read her post. You two have a lot in common today.

    http://hahnathome.com/?p=897

    Mimi Lenoxs last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem ~ A Revolution of Words
  • Mimi sent me Lee - we share something
    Anyway, I'm for people serving. I served, my sister served, our father and stepfather, grandfather, and others in our family have proudly served at one point or other in all the services except the Marines. I don't want my son to join something that would most assuredly mean being put in the center of battle.

    I am strongly encouraging my son that if he MUST go in the service (he has other options--he's just not ready for them), that he go Navy or Air Force. The risk is smaller. It's not non-existent, but smaller.

    I wish your son good luck and I know how you feel having him leap out into a dangerous world without your counsel. I guess all we can do is count on the fact that we've been there all those years and maybe everything we ever told them will somehow seep in and they'll be okay.

    Loris last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem: My Selfish Reasons Revealed
  • Great to see you on board and what a nice Globe!

    Hello from Norway - peace to you and the one you love!

    RennyBAs last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • May God protect your son always. Peace to you and yours. :)

    Comedy Pluss last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • Peace to you, Lee, and may your son be safe and sound always.

    Lindas last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • Lee
    Linda: Thank you. Funny thing is, I just got off the phone with my ex-wife, and Aaron had to report TODAY for his final processing before shipping out on Friday for Great Lakes Naval Station in Illinois. Rather ironic, given my post for today.
  • Pax Vobiscum!

    Marilyn MonREOWs last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • Lee
    Marilyn MonREOW: Peace to you as well. Thanks for visiting.

    Margaret: Thank you for stopping by and leaving your comment. In spite of my feelings of apprehension, I'm excited for my son. He was struggling to find a direction for his life and came up with this on his own. I have high hopes for him and in some ways envy the adventure he's setting out on.

    Trish: Thank you and peace be with you as well.

    Vixen: Thank you. Each small act of kindness or attempt at understanding move us a little closer to peace.

    Mar: Thank you for stopping by. And may peace fill your life as well.
  • My son has been in the Navy for 17 years now. He joined right out of high school when he was 17, so he's been in the navy half his life.

    It's been a good life for him and a challenging one. He was able to take a leave and go to college and get his degree in Engineering. He's been to many different places in the world and seen things he would not have otherwise seen.

    He started out in submarines. Now he's in Washington DC now assigned to Naval Intelligence (I know -- an oxymoron), but he's enjoying his job very much.

    I hope your son has the great experiences that mine has had. It's not the life for everyone, but it's not a bad life on the whole of it. It's not as easy on families as having a 9-5 job is, but there are many positive aspects to it and families DO manage.

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  • Beautiful globe and thanks for your message of peace to the world.
    Peace be unto you and all of us
    May your son stay safe always

    Trishs last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem
  • Your post is well done. May God keep your son safe, as well as my son who is currently in Iraq for the second time. I understand your feelings, both ways.

    May peace unite us. Peace and blessings to you and yours, today and always.

    Vixens last blog post..Bilingual Perro
  • Mar
    Your peace globe and post are very inspiring...hope your son stays safe...
    Peace and love to you and yours!

    Mars last blog post..more blues...
  • May your son stay safe and may our hopes for Peace come to fruition.

    Akelamalus last blog post..Dona Nobis Pacem.......
  • Lee
    Akelamalu: Thank you, and I share your hopes.
  • I will keep your son in my prayers...stay strong pops!
    PRAY FOR PEACE!
    (I have a little something for you on my blog Lee!)

    Olga, the Traveling Bras last blog post..Arte-Y-Pico Award & A Mystery Goes Unsolved....
  • Lee
    OlgaTTB: Thanks for the prayers. And also, thank you for the award, I am very honored.

    jafabrit: Having been there, your support means a lot. Thank you.

    The Fearless Blog: You are welcome. My part was raising him and through a lot of anguish and fear actually having him grow up with strong values and a desire to "make a difference."

    Travis: I will do that the first chance I have to talk to him. I'm very proud of his willingness to serve.

    Meleah: My son is brave. I'm just a parent supporting the decisions his 20 year-old son is making. :D
  • As a mum whose son spent 5 years in the marines I understand. I will keep your son in my thoughts.
    Semper Fi

    jafabrits last blog post..Raining Cats and Dogs & Street Art
  • I thank your son and your family for your service.

    I too pray for peace.

    And I pray that all men and women on this planet love their sons or daughters as much as I love my sons. That instead of teaching destruction, we teach love,respect, honor and responsibility.

    I pray for your son's safe return.

    the fearless blogs last blog post..Fear Imprisons Us Forever: My First Post
  • You echo my own thoughts.

    Please convey my thanks to your son for his dedictation to service, and thank you for raising a young man of such commitment.

    Peace to you and yours.

    Traviss last blog post..A Momentous Day
  • still. you and your son are brave for this.

    *peace*
  • Lee, don't know why, but this is my first time here. I like your blog very much. I think your son must be very confident in the choices he has made. We live in a very dangerous world, and the fact that he is willing to do something instead of not, says a lot about you. He will come home safe, and see parts of the world he otherwise would not have. Brave young man. I try to get people to look at what can be done for those less fortunate with my words. Peace
  • Lee
    Mitch: No matter how long it took you to visit, thank you for stopping at Tarheel Ramblings and leaving a comment. Aaron is confident in his decision, and I am very proud of him.

    I paid a visit to your blog, and I commend you on what you've done there. Powerful examples of how we can reach out to those less fortunate.
  • Travis over at trav's thought said you had a great peace globe posted and He is right.
    I will keep you son in my prayers thart God keeps him safe.
    Peace be with you and all of your family.

    I have a peace globe up on two sites. the wordpress site and my other site http://mjgolch.blogspot.com

    Mike golchs last blog post..Maybe it’s time
  • Lee
    Mike: Welcome to Tarheel Ramblings, and thanks for leaving a comment. I appreciate the prayers. I'm going to be doing a lot of that myself for the next six years.
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